Your Questions Answered

In today's video response I answer the question, "What's the most important thing anyone can bring into a relationship?" In this video I look at the different potential gifts men and women express in a partnership and that what you bring will ultimately depend on your core sexual essence.
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Money is frequently a source of disharmony and conflict in relationship, so what is the best way to manage money in a relationship that keeps the intimacy strong while minimising stress? In this video I share a great financial model of couples which I use in my own relationship with great success.
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In today's question, I was asked, "How do I stop having my past get in the way of my relationships in the present?" Great question, and in this video I talk about the two important steps you need to take to keep the past where it belongs...
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In this video I respond to the great question about whether or not two people who are growing in different directions, or are at two different levels of consciousness should stay together or seek more symbiotic partnerships.
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In this video I touch on the three reasons why your social relationships with people generally don't work. 1) You lack the confidence to be authentically 'you' 2) Your unfinished 'business' pushes people away energetically or 3) Your life path is changing and you are being guided away from people who no longer serve you towards a new group that will. In the interim, you may find it isolating and lonely. Watch the video to find out more.
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After feeling betrayed by the one you love the most, how do you recover the relationship and re-establish trust? In today's video I address this complex and delicate topic.
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I don't assume to know the answer to this question. However, I've had some wonderful women teachers who have drawn my attention to what they needed in the many moments when I didn't give them what they longed for in their heart. So, through my many mistakes in past (and current :-) relationships, I offer this short video on the subject of what women want. Enjoy.
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In today's video response, I talk about the process of healing the unhealthy relationship dynamics that plague nearly all partnerships. Have you ever wondered why our partner seems to have the key to triggering our pain body? Why do we get so easily rattled and plugged in by the ones we love the most? And what can we do to come into harmony quickly and gracefully? In this video, I reveal all...
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Earlier in the week, I asked you to post your biggest questions about your relationship challenges as I'll be posting DAILY video responses on my blog
throughout the month of August. The response has been amazing and today, I posted my first video replying to Marsi's question about how to stop
being a 'fixer'. I really think you're going to find it valuable!

In relationships, there is a tendency to offer solution, give advice, rescue or fix. It's not as simple as just 'cutting it out' as this habit is wired as a self-
preservation strategy to keep us from tuning into our own feelings.

In this video, find out how you can you navigate the different strategies that are holding you back in your life and your relationships.
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In this video, you're going to learn how to use a powerful communication technique which will help you express yourself so that other's get you. Before the end of August, I'll be creating personalised video responses to your questions about Relationships, Sexuality and Intimacy, so go to http://www.loverelationshipsandyou.com/ to post your now.

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